God, this bores the crap out of me, and I at least get to use these damn things. But once you enter the world of a kitchen remodel, the only way out is through the stainless steel kitchen-aid ice-dispensing filtered counter-depth hidden hinged appliance door. And so I went.
You gotta get a microwave, a range (or a cooktop and separate oven), a dishwasher, and a fridge as the basics. If you don't get an over-the-range venting microwave, you've got to do a venting hood too. And then there are warming drawers, wine fridges, etc. But screw those.
We were definitely doing an over-the-range microwave - space is a premium, and our kitchen is too small for the overwhelming hugeness of a giant stainless steel hood.
We definitely wanted a slide-in range to keep the kitchen as seamless as possible (slide-ins merge with the countertop, free-standing ranges are a little more flexible but leave a gap that food and such can slide into).
We definitely wanted a dual-fuel range, allowing gas cooktop for instant and finely controlled heat (some let you actually melt chocolate on a paper plate...), and the precise temperature controls of an electric oven.
We definitely wanted a fridge, but didn't have much otherwise for requirements. Same with the over-range microwave.
The dishwasher was easy - we wanted Bosche only, and a totally seamless look, which led directly to a particular model.
So, appliance shopping we go, hitting Lowes and 3 different Queens City Appliance stores (Outlet, Contractor center, and normal store), along with web price comparisons. Lowes ended up being the least expensive with their 10% off coupons, but Queens City was willing to deal, and Lowes didn't carry the right dishwasher (they only carry Bosche 56 series and below it seems, even with special ordering), so we went with Queens from the normal store (contractor pricing is better before dealing, but they wouldn't deal on those prices).
Items and points of interest:
Range: GE Profile J2S968SHSS (all controls up front and simple, good cast-iron grills that cover 100% of surface) - $1700
Microwave: GE Profile JVM1490SH (Convection microwave, offers some degree of second-oven capability) - $499
Fridge: GE Profile PSH23PSRSV (this sucked - had to change to counter-depth fridge after analyzing space in the kitchen, cost us over $1200 more to save 6-9") - $2500
Dishwasher: Bosche SHY66C05UC (super quiet, super reliable, great ease-of-use facilities, 100% clean front (all controls inside)) - $985
Lead time for delivery is only about 1-2 weeks, we had them delay for a month.
There. That sucked.
Total Price (including cables, 5-year extended warranty, and delivery): $5893.01 (not including tax)
GE rebates should bring $300 or so back home.